They try to get you to spend all your time trying to figure out what you can do and how you must change to make everything better. That way you don't see how he is setting himself up as the center and only thing in your world." Joanna Hunter
“Compassion is sometimes the fatal capacity for feeling what it is like to live inside somebody else's skin. It is the knowledge that there can never really be any peace and joy for me until there is peace and joy finally for you too.”
~ Frederick Buechner <----This is Empathy.... this is what abusive personalities do not know how to feel, what they do not have.
Being lied to, cheated on & having your heart broken, makes it harder to trust people, believe in & or fall in love.
“It is inevitable that some defeat will enter
even the most victorious life. The human spirit is never finished when
it is defeated...it is finished when it surrenders.”Ben Stein
You, as much as anyone in the entire universe, deserve your love and your affection.~ Buddha
means having the courage, the determination, and the will to become the
person you believe you were meant to be." George Sheehan